We could spend every waking moment learning grammar rules and still not have them all mastered. And that would leave zero time to actually write anything.
Luckily for each of us, there’s a surefire way to avoid learning the majority of grammar rules while still adhering them: read things out loud.
Most grammar rules follow conventions of normal speech. If you read something out loud and it sounds wrong, you’re probably breaking a grammatical rule. However, if you read something out loud and it flows properly, chances are you’re in the grammatical clear.
This assumes you’re a fluent speaker of the language you’re writing in, otherwise you might not catch when things sound off out loud.
This might sound like I’m advising you to join the Grammatical Anarchists Party, or GAP for short. On the contrary. I believe grammar rules are mostly important and worth following, I’m just saying it’s not worth sweating them so diligently.
But don’t just take my word for it, take Steven King’s.
Love or hate the genre, Steven King is one of the best-selling authors of our time. Besides his dozens of novels, King wrote one of the best books of writing advice ever published, On Writing. It’s there that King shares his simple rule for grammar:
Language does not always have to wear a tie and lace-up shoes. The object of fiction isn’t grammatical correctness but to make the reader welcome and then tell a story… to make him/her forget, whenever possible, that he/she is reading a story at all.
We can obsess over proper grammar or we can write. It is as simple as that. If you read what you’ve written out loud and the story is compelling and sounds right, it probably is. Don’t bother trying to put a tie on it.